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Everyday Monsters: Anxiety, Fear, and Phobias, OH MY!
During this time of year, fear is something we talk about more often. Scary movies. Scary costumes. Haunted houses. Fear, when expected and controlled, can be fun! Some of us enjoy the thrill of a jump scare in a scary movie or a haunted house. But for some of us, fear and anxiety is something we deal with in our day-to-day lives, and it can be debilitating. 3 Common Ways Anxiety and Fear Haunt Our Lives 1. Fear without cause All of us experience anxiety to a certain degree. Our hearts race before turning a corner in the Halloween corn maze. Our stomachs drop when an animatronic at Spirit Halloween…
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How to Help Your Child Overcome Separation Anxiety
Practical strategies for parents separation anxiety can be a challenging emotional hurdle for children, especially in times of transition, such as a parent’s illness, changes in the environment, divorce, etc. Sometimes separation anxiety can appear like not wanting to go to school, wanting to stay close to the parent no matter where they go, not wanting to sleep in their bed alone, and many more. As parents, understanding how to support your child through these tough moments is crucial. Here are some practical strategies to help your child navigate separation anxiety effectively. 8 Steps to Support Your Child Through Separation Anxiety 1. Acknowledge Their Feelings One of the first steps…
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How to Better Handle Big Life Changes
I am one of the newest members of the Be Inspired family, and this has been an awesome change for me to make in my life. But with that said, I am one of those people who typically struggle with making big life changes. I can’t tell you how many times in my life I have said “I hate change!” Seriously—I have been using the same brand of Chapstick since the 7th grade: Burt’s Bees Mango Butter. Every other Chapstick is inferior, and you cannot convince me otherwise. There is not much we are guaranteed in this life—but change is one of them. Here are some ways I have found…
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Finding the Gift in Life: A Holiday Reminder of Gratitude
I’ll be honest. This time of year can be hard for many. Whether it’s navigating the holidays after the loss of a loved one or feeling the pressure to do it all—buying the perfect gifts, hosting ideal gatherings, and decorating like the Griswolds—the season meant for connection can quickly turn into a pressure cooker of stress and emotions. Shifting Our Perspective Lately, I’ve been reminded that no matter what we’re facing, life itself is a gift. Yet, when the weight of expectations piles up, it’s easy to lose sight of that. In our world of instant gratification and constant distraction—where our phones are buzzing with notifications—it’s harder than ever to…
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3 Expert Tips for Handling Holiday Financial Stress
Holiday time can bring a lot of joy but also a lot of stress. Thousands of people are shopping for the holidays. Many people enjoy the season and shopping. However, over half of the holiday shoppers will begin to feel financial stress during the holidays. According to APA’s 2024 Stress in America Survey, only 16% of adults said they do not experience stress during the holiday season. It is common to feel anxiety, stress, and sadness when you have little or no money and are expected to provide gifts for family members. Here are a few ways to manage stress due to spending during the holiday time. 3 Tips to…
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The Powerful Benefits of Choosing Faith-Based Counseling
As a mental health professional, I understand the importance of addressing the holistic well-being of my clients – mind, body, and spirit. For many individuals, their faith and spirituality play a significant role in their lives, influencing their values, beliefs, and sense of purpose. Faith-based counseling can be a powerful step towards achieving emotional and spiritual healing. Faith-based counseling provides a unique approach to therapy that integrates psychological techniques with spiritual principles and beliefs. This can be particularly beneficial for individuals who are seeking to deepen their connection with their spiritual life and values, and who desires a therapist who understands and respects their faith traditions. Here are some benefits…
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Breaking the Stigma Surrounding Mental Health
Mental health has long been a taboo topic in society, shrouded in stigma and misconceptions. Despite progress in recent years, many individuals still feel ashamed or afraid to seek help for their mental health challenges. This stigma can prevent people from getting the support they need and deserve, leading to feelings of isolation and exacerbating their struggles. It is crucial to break down these barriers and create a safe and supportive environment for individuals to openly discuss and address their mental health. Seeking Help is a Sign of Weakness One of the most pervasive myths surrounding mental health is the idea that seeking help is a sign of weakness. This harmful belief contributes to the stigma surrounding mental…
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A Season to Reflect
Fall is here in Louisiana and it’s a great time to stop and reflect! I don’t know about you, but fall is my favorite season. The cool weather in the mornings is my favorite! I grew up in Michigan, and it’s a little different here than it is there during fall. For example, the leaves change quicker there, and sometimes in October, it snows! My family and I would go to a cider mill and get fresh hot cider and donuts every year. There’s something about the smell in the air and the big green trees turning yellow, orange, and red. Stop and Reflect Fall is also a time of…
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Life Lessons from Solving a Puzzle
A few weeks ago I did something I hadn’t done in quite a while—I put together a puzzle with a friend. Although we haven’t finished it yet, the experience reminded me of how putting together a puzzle is similar to moving through life. Here are some of the insights I gained while piecing it together. Clarity First, let’s normalize that putting together a puzzle, especially a 1,000-piece one with minimal detail, is not easy. When I started trying to put this puzzle together, I was quickly reminded to reference the picture of what the puzzle is supposed to look like often. Clarity is key. Understanding what you want your life…
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How to Combat Early Mornings for Your School-aged Child
As parents, we all know that getting our kids up and ready for school in the morning can be a real challenge. But for some children, the stress of waking up early and starting their day can have a significant impact on their mental health. Here, I will discuss some effective strategies to help combat the difficulties of early school mornings for kids and promote a positive start to their day: 1. Establish a Bedtime Routine One of the most important ways to combat early school mornings for kids is to establish a consistent bedtime routine. Set a specific bedtime for your child and make sure they stick to it…
