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Why Autism in Women and Girls Is Still Being Missed
Part 3 of the Say It Louder Series In Part 1, we talked about how women are often told their symptoms are “just anxiety.” In Part 2, we discussed how hormonal imbalances can impact mental health and why those symptoms are often overlooked. In Part 3, we explored chronic pain and how many women are left feeling dismissed when their physical symptoms are misunderstood. And now we need to talk about something many women are only discovering much later in life: They may be autistic—and no one recognized it. More women and girls are being diagnosed with autism later in life because many do not fit outdated stereotypes. They may…
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Why Chronic Pain in Women Is Often Misunderstood
Part 3 of the Say It Louder Series In Part 1, we talked about how women are often told their symptoms are “just anxiety” while deeper health concerns are overlooked. In Part 2, we explored how hormonal imbalances can significantly affect women’s mental health—and how many women are left struggling because no one is connecting the dots. And now we need to talk about another issue affecting millions of women: Chronic Pain. Because far too many women are living with daily pain while being dismissed, misdiagnosed, or told it’s all in their head. And that has to change. When Chronic Pain in Women Becomes “Normal” Many women live with symptoms…
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Hormones and Mental Health in Women: What You Need to Know
Part 2 of the Say It Louder Series In Part 1 of this series, we talked about something many women know all too well: being told their symptoms are “just anxiety” while deeper physical concerns go unexplored. We talked about how women are often treated in pieces instead of as whole people—and how that can leave many feeling dismissed, confused, and exhausted. But let’s go deeper. Because one of the biggest missing conversations in women’s healthcare is hormones. And no—I’m not talking about the oversimplified version of “women are emotional because hormones fluctuate.” I’m talking about the very real ways hormones can impact mood, anxiety, sleep, focus, energy, and overall…
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Beyond “Just Anxiety”: How Women’s Symptoms Are Misdiagnosed
Part 1 of the Say It Louder Series How many women have heard phrases like: “It’s just stress.”“That’s normal for your age.”“Hormones fluctuate.”“Try birth control.”“Let’s increase your antidepressant.”“You just need to relax.” And how many women have left those appointments knowing something still felt wrong? Too many—including myself and many women and girls I know and love. How Women’s Symptoms Are Dismissed Women are often taught to tolerate pain, normalize exhaustion, and push through symptoms that deserve deeper medical attention. We’re praised for being resilient while quietly carrying issues that may be connected to real biological concerns. And when those symptoms begin affecting mental health? Many women are quickly prescribed…
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Overstimulated and Kinda Annoyed: A Guide for Humans
What Does “Overstimulated” Even Mean? The word overstimulated has made its way into pop culture. I hear it from neurodivergent folks, stay-at-home moms, and teens who are annoyed at their parents. But what does it actually mean? And how do we get less stimulated? At its core, overstimulated means your nervous system is overloaded. Our brains are constantly sorting input—sights, sounds, smells, emotions, chemical dumps, perceived danger, and more. When the brain gets more input than it can handle, it can trigger anxiety, irritability, or overwhelm. Being overstimulated often feels like: Why Do We Get Overstimulated? 1. Some Brains Are More Sensitive Some of us are more sensitive to daily…
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“I Cried Today”: A Therapist’s Reflection on Singleness
Today, as I sat at my kitchen table catching up on some work, the sound of children’s playful laughter drifted into my home, and bubbles from my neighbor’s backyard floated gently into mine. It was a delight to see the kids out enjoying their school break, without a care in the world. — And then, I cried. Because in that moment, I was reminded of what I don’t have. There’s no giggles filling my home. No one to share meals with or to tell about my day. There’s just me and the silence. As a therapist, I often sit with people in their pain, helping them process it without shame…
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Life Transitions: 5 Ways to Rediscover Yourself in Times of Change
I’ll never forget the moment I transitioned into a new role in my career in 2018. For so long, I had been responsible for others—leading a team, guiding a program, carrying the weight of decisions and outcomes. And then, one day, I found myself in a position where my responsibility was only to myself and the people I served. It was a shift I didn’t fully anticipate. At first, it felt like a loss—an identity I had built for so long was no longer there. I had spent almost 5 years shaping the direction of others, and now, I had more time to breathe, more space to think. It felt…
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How to Find Yourself: 3 Ways to Reclaim What Makes You Happy
There are lots of reasons why we may have lost ourselves: grief, trauma, parenthood, co-dependency, etc. This is why some of the most common goals I hear from my clients are “I want to find myself again,” “I want to figure out who I am,” and “I want to find what makes me happy.” It’s such an uneasy feeling not to feel connected to who you are, so let’s talk about ways to re-establish that connection. 3 Ways to Help You Find Yourself Again 1. Time Alone It can be difficult to hear our own inner voice when there is so much stimulus happening around us. Take time to be…
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How Do I Make Friends as an Adult?
This is a question I have been asked by so many of my clients: “How can I make friends as an adult?” As a society, we are lonelier than ever, and so many of us feel like we don’t even know where to start to try and change that. I hear this from young adults who have entered the workforce and don’t know how to connect with people outside of a school environment. I hear this from stay-at-home moms who feel isolated and like they only have their partner. And also from older adults who realize they don’t have anyone to talk to now that their kids are out of…
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Navigating Life After Divorce: How to Heal and Move Forward
Divorce can be one of life’s most challenging experiences, leaving you feeling lost, overwhelmed, and uncertain about the future. However, many people find that with time, patience, and the right strategies, they can rebuild their lives and emerge stronger than before. I want to emphasize the importance of professional guidance, maintaining a healthy environment for children, prioritizing mental health, and embracing self-care. 6 Practical Steps to Reclaim Your Life After Divorce Here are some essential guidelines for managing life after divorce: 1. Choose the Right Attorney One of the first steps in navigating divorce is finding a good attorney. Your lawyer will play a crucial role in guiding you through…
