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What Exactly is Gaslighting and Are You a Victim?
Gaslighting is a term that has gained attention in recent years, especially in discussions surrounding toxic relationships and psychological manipulation. The term “gaslighting” originates from the play and film “Gaslight,” where a husband manipulates his wife into questioning her own reality. The concept was further popularized by the 1944 film adaptation starring Ingrid Bergman. The term “gaslighting” was coined to describe a form of psychological manipulation where the perpetrator seeks to sow seeds of doubt in the victim, making them question their own perceptions and sanity. It is a tactic often used by abusive individuals to gain control and power over others by undermining their confidence and sense of reality.…
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How to Test Prep to Stress Less
When the days get longer, it’s a sure sign that spring has arrived. This change of seasons also ushers in the time of year when teachers, parents, and students prepare for testing. Whether it’s a final exam, a standardized test, or even a pop quiz, tackling tests can be nerve-wracking. But fear not, because I want to share some strategies to help you prepare for a test while keeping your mental health in check. Starting Early and Staying Organized First things first, let’s talk about starting early and staying organized. Procrastination is the ultimate enemy when it comes to test prep, at least it was for me growing up. It…
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Silencing Your Inner Critic
The words we tell ourselves are powerful. They shape how we show up in the world and what we believe we are capable of. After thousands of conversations I’ve had over the years, along with my own lived experience, I have come to realize we all have an internal world unseen by the people around us. One recurring theme that emerges is the undeniable power of the words we tell ourselves, and the profound impact it has on our mental well-being. Our inner dialogue, that constant stream of thoughts buzzing in our minds, plays a crucial role in shaping our emotions and behaviors. It’s like having a personal narrator, commenting…
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6 Holistic Tips to Help with Insomnia
Insomnia is a common sleep disorder that affects many individuals, both young and old. It can be frustrating to deal with but there are simple tips and tricks that can help improve your sleep quality and overall well-being. Here, we will explore six useful tips for managing insomnia, focusing on natural remedies and lifestyle changes that can make a significant difference in your sleep patterns. 1. Melatonin for Adults, Not Children and Teens Melatonin is a hormone that regulates sleep-wake cycles. While children and teens typically have enough melatonin naturally, adults may benefit from supplementation. If you choose to take melatonin, it is recommended to start with a low dosage—between…
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Finding PEACE in an Unpeaceful World
Living in an unpeaceful world can take a toll on our mental health. The constant stress, negativity, and chaos can leave us feeling overwhelmed and disconnected from our inner peace. However, it is possible to find peace within ourselves, even amidst the chaos. In this blog, we will explore five steps that can help us cultivate inner serenity, using the acronym PEACE. Step 1: Practice Mindfulness Mindfulness is the practice of being fully present in the moment, without judgment. It allows us to observe our thoughts and emotions without getting caught up in them. For my friends who are spiritual, mindfulness can be in the form of listening to the…
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New Year, New Mindset: Healthy Goals and Healthy Self
As we step into a new year, it’s the perfect time to reflect on our lives and set intentions for the months ahead. While many of us focus on resolutions related to physical health or career aspirations, it’s equally important to prioritize our mental well-being. This year, let’s embrace a new mindset that includes setting healthy goals, practicing self-care, and creating a bucket list to promote happiness and productivity. Let’s explore the importance of a bucket list for the year and how scratching off those items can bring joy and fulfillment to our lives. Setting Healthy Goals When it comes to setting goals, it’s crucial to be realistic and specific.…
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Handling Holiday Family Drama: Tips for Reducing Stress
Navigate holiday family conflicts with ease. Learn to identify issues, use practical tips, and positive strategies for peaceful, harmonious gatherings. As the holiday season gets closer, we usually think of joy and cheer, however, unavoidable family conflict can also come along with this. It can be a time of stress for many families. We all dream of having a holiday where we can relax with our family members, but festive-time drama is very common in American homes. Whether it’s an argument every year, existing problems, or just overnight visits from family members, all these things can lead to increased anxiety during the holiday season. Being able to handle these tensions…
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Gratitude: The Secret to a Happy Mind
Gratitude isn’t just a warm and fuzzy sentiment we occasionally feel; it’s a transformative emotion that can significantly boost our mental health and overall well-being. It involves recognizing and appreciating the positive aspects of our lives, even when we’re facing difficulties. And, it is one of the best kept secrets to a happier mind! While it might sound too simple to make a real difference, numerous studies reveal that adopting gratitude as a way of life can lead to remarkable improvements in mental health. Since it’s November, a month where we often acknowledge what we are thankful for, let’s dive into the science of gratitude and how it positively affects…
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Restoring Balance After a Manic Episode
Experiencing a manic episode can be overwhelming, but with the right approach, it is possible to regain balance and reconnect with your true self. By following the steps outlined in the acronym R.E.S.T.O.R.E., you can embark on a journey of recovery and find your way back to a balanced and fulfilling life. Reach Out to a Therapist: The first step towards reclaiming yourself after a manic episode is to seek professional help. Reach out to your mental health professional or psychiatrist to discuss your experience and develop a plan for recovery. They can provide guidance, adjust medications if necessary, and offer therapy or counseling options tailored to your needs. Establish…
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Navigating Grief
Understanding the Many Faces of Loss Grief is a complex and deeply personal experience that extends beyond the loss of a loved one to death. It encompasses a wide range of losses, including divorce, the loss of a pet, the end of a job, the loss of a friend or support group, and more. In this blog, we will explore some different facets of grief and provide steps to help you navigate through the grieving process in each of these areas. Additionally, I hope to help you be better equipped to deal with the loss of a loved one, even years after their passing. Grief and Divorce Allow Yourself to…
