When you see your child struggling, it can be hard to know what to do as a parent.  In those moments you may wonder, “Are they going through a phase or is this something more?”  Most of the time it’s not always clear as to what is going on or what you should do, leaving you with the question, “Does my child or teen need counseling?”   There is no parenting manual I often ask parents when they come into my office if they ever received the manual on how to deal with all the challenges parenting throws their way.  Out of the hundreds of parents I’ve asked over the course…