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How Is Talking to a Therapist Different From Talking to a Friend?
This is one of the questions I get asked most frequently as a therapist: Why would I see a professional when I have my best friend with whom I can talk about my problems? What can a therapist do for me that I don’t get from venting to my spouse? I have even heard, “My dog is my therapist.” What’s the point in going to see a therapist? There are distinct differences in speaking to a professional and speaking to someone you know personally. Talking to a therapist should look very different from talking to a friend, so let’s get into those differences. 5 Key Differences Between Talking to a…
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Navigating Life After Divorce: How to Heal and Move Forward
Divorce can be one of life’s most challenging experiences, leaving you feeling lost, overwhelmed, and uncertain about the future. However, many people find that with time, patience, and the right strategies, they can rebuild their lives and emerge stronger than before. I want to emphasize the importance of professional guidance, maintaining a healthy environment for children, prioritizing mental health, and embracing self-care. 6 Practical Steps to Reclaim Your Life After Divorce Here are some essential guidelines for managing life after divorce: 1. Choose the Right Attorney One of the first steps in navigating divorce is finding a good attorney. Your lawyer will play a crucial role in guiding you through…
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Pain Reprocessing Therapy: How to Train the Brain to Unlearn Pain
If you’ve been dealing with chronic pain for what feels like forever, you’ve probably heard it all: “Have you tried yoga?” “Maybe it’s your diet.” “It’s just stress!” Meanwhile, you’re over here thinking, If one more person tells me to meditate, I might just scream. Chronic pain can be exhausting, frustrating, and downright demoralizing. But what if I told you that your brain might be tricking you into feeling pain—even when there’s no real injury or ongoing damage? Enter Pain Reprocessing Therapy (PRT), a science-backed approach that helps retrain your brain to unlearn pain. Sounds wild, right? Stick with me. Your Brain: The Ultimate Drama Queen Our brains are incredible.…
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What Does It Mean To ‘Feel My Feelings’?
The phrases “Just let yourself feel your feelings” and “It’s okay to feel all the feels” are really popular in the mental health space and online, but for many of us this does not come naturally. Some of us try to distract ourselves from things that make us feel. Some try to logically think things through without stopping to see what emotions we are actually having. And some don’t have the language to even understand what we are feeling when we do, so we have a difficult time understanding where we stand on things. If you resonate with any of these things, there are 3 questions that I ask my…
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Breaking Free: The Power of Letting Go
Letting go is often one of the hardest things we face in life. Whether it’s a relationship, a job, or a personal project, the thought of walking away can fill us with fear and uncertainty. Yet, sometimes, letting go is exactly what we need to do to make room for growth and positive change. A concept that often keeps us attached to situations that no longer serve us is the sunk cost fallacy. What Is the Sunk Cost Fallacy? The sunk cost fallacy is a psychological phenomenon where people continue to invest in something because of the time, money, or effort they’ve already put into it, even when it no…
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Why an Integrative Health Therapist Might Be What You Need
It’s no secret to learn that today’s mental health concerns are at an all-time high. Many people seek therapeutic support to address their emotional and psychological needs. However, traditional therapy often focuses solely on mental health, overlooking the interconnected nature of human health. As an integrative health therapist, I believe that to achieve true psychological well-being, we must consider various aspects of health, including physical, social, and spiritual dimensions. Here’s what you can expect when you engage with an integrative health specialist and the transformative benefits that come with it. 5 Ways an Integrative Health Therapist Can Support Your Well-Being 1. Understanding the Interconnectedness of Health Research suggests that mental…
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TikTok Says I’m Autistic — How Do I Know If It’s True?
The age of social media has changed the game when it comes to mental health. It’s amazing that so many people have been able to see that they are not alone, and it has greatly helped de-stigmatize certain mental health issues. With that said, there is still a lot of stigma and we have a long way to go. The downside of the mental health side of social media is a sharp increase of people diagnosing themselves with disorders they do not meet the criteria for. I have had quite a few clients tell me that they have figured out from TikTok that they are Autistic, but upon talking to…
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How to Help Your Child Overcome Separation Anxiety
Practical strategies for parents separation anxiety can be a challenging emotional hurdle for children, especially in times of transition, such as a parent’s illness, changes in the environment, divorce, etc. Sometimes separation anxiety can appear like not wanting to go to school, wanting to stay close to the parent no matter where they go, not wanting to sleep in their bed alone, and many more. As parents, understanding how to support your child through these tough moments is crucial. Here are some practical strategies to help your child navigate separation anxiety effectively. 8 Steps to Support Your Child Through Separation Anxiety 1. Acknowledge Their Feelings One of the first steps…
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How to Better Handle Big Life Changes
I am one of the newest members of the Be Inspired family, and this has been an awesome change for me to make in my life. But with that said, I am one of those people who typically struggle with making big life changes. I can’t tell you how many times in my life I have said “I hate change!” Seriously—I have been using the same brand of Chapstick since the 7th grade: Burt’s Bees Mango Butter. Every other Chapstick is inferior, and you cannot convince me otherwise. There is not much we are guaranteed in this life—but change is one of them. Here are some ways I have found…
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How to Combat Early Mornings for Your School-aged Child
As parents, we all know that getting our kids up and ready for school in the morning can be a real challenge. But for some children, the stress of waking up early and starting their day can have a significant impact on their mental health. Here, I will discuss some effective strategies to help combat the difficulties of early school mornings for kids and promote a positive start to their day: 1. Establish a Bedtime Routine One of the most important ways to combat early school mornings for kids is to establish a consistent bedtime routine. Set a specific bedtime for your child and make sure they stick to it…
