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“I Cried Today”: A Therapist’s Reflection on Singleness
Today, as I sat at my kitchen table catching up on some work, the sound of children’s playful laughter drifted into my home, and bubbles from my neighbor’s backyard floated gently into mine. It was a delight to see the kids out enjoying their school break, without a care in the world. — And then, I cried. Because in that moment, I was reminded of what I don’t have. There’s no giggles filling my home. No one to share meals with or to tell about my day. There’s just me and the silence. As a therapist, I often sit with people in their pain, helping them process it without shame…
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How to Be Okay for Valentine’s Day (or Month) Without a Valentine
Valentine’s Day is often associated with romantic love and can sometimes leave those without a partner feeling left out or lonely. However, it’s important to remember that love comes in many forms, and this day can be an opportunity to celebrate self-love and appreciation. Here are some practical tips and ideas to help you embrace Valentine’s Day (or month) without a valentine and make it a time of self-care and self-compassion. Shift Your Perspective Instead of viewing Valentine’s Day as solely focused on romantic love, reframe it as a celebration of all types of love. Recognize the love you have for yourself, your friends, family, and even pets. Remember that…
