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Are You a Certified “Crash Out”? Tools to Manage Big Emotions
Do you ever feel your emotions go from calm to chaotic in seconds? Do people seem to back away when you’re upset or tell you that you’re “too sensitive” or “overreacting”? If so, you may relate to what some call “crash out” — when emotions get so big that you feel overwhelmed, out of control, or misunderstood. When emotions feel too heavy to put into words, it can feel like drowning in your own reactions. Crashing out can look different for everyone and might involve crying, yelling, shaking, breathing hard, feeling hot, throwing objects, punching walls or pillows, or struggling to calm down. These reactions don’t mean you’re “dramatic” —…
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Unpacking Your Core Beliefs: What ‘Inside Out’ Can Teach You
One of the most important things to consider when addressing mental health challenges is focusing on what’s within your control—namely, you. You may not be able to control how your parents, siblings, or others behave in your relationships, but you can take steps to better understand yourself and your thought patterns. A great place to start is by exploring your core beliefs—the ideas you hold about yourself, others, and the world. Inside Riley’s Mind: How Childhood Experiences Shape Our Core Beliefs If you’ve ever seen the movie Inside Out (and if you haven’t, you should!), you might remember the main character, Riley, and her collection of core memories—glowing glass orbs…
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What Does It Mean To ‘Feel My Feelings’?
The phrases “Just let yourself feel your feelings” and “It’s okay to feel all the feels” are really popular in the mental health space and online, but for many of us this does not come naturally. Some of us try to distract ourselves from things that make us feel. Some try to logically think things through without stopping to see what emotions we are actually having. And some don’t have the language to even understand what we are feeling when we do, so we have a difficult time understanding where we stand on things. If you resonate with any of these things, there are 3 questions that I ask my…
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Apps That Can Support Your Mental Health
Do you know the 6 smartphone Apps that can support your mental health? We have all heard before that technology is a waste of time. I hear that phrase the most from my grandparents. Some of what they say is true, but smartphones can be helpful for your body, mindset, and life, when used in the right way. People use smartphones for their entertainment purposes such as Netflix, Hulu, Facebook, and others. Social media and entertainment apps are the most used on everyone’s smartphones. Instead of using technology to benefit the entertainment side of our lives, why not use it to better increase our mindset and mental health? Here are…
