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Breaking Free from Trauma: How It Affects Us and How to Heal
Trauma. It’s a word we often hear, but it can feel heavy, complicated, or even like it’s reserved for “big” life events. The truth is, trauma is simply an emotional response to something deeply distressing. And every one of us experiences events in life that can leave us feeling vulnerable, shaken, or changed. How Trauma Shows Up in Our Lives Whether it’s the loss of someone we love, a painful relationship, an accident, a health scare, or even subtle experiences that chip away at our sense of safety. These moments impact us. They shape the way we see ourselves, others, and the world. Here’s the thing: experiencing trauma is part…
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Suicide Prevention: Warning Signs and When to Seek Help
Suicide is one of the most pressing public health issues in the United States today. According to the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention (CDC), it is the 11th leading cause of death overall. For young people ages 10–24, it ranks even higher, making suicide the second leading cause of death in this age group. These numbers show that suicide is not just a statistic—it is a crisis affecting families, schools, and communities across the nation. Understanding the Numbers In 2023, suicide rates revealed concerning patterns: These patterns remind us that suicide affects people differently depending on their age, gender, and cultural background. Suicide prevention efforts need to be sensitive…
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When Hope Feels Out of Reach: A Reflection for Suicide Awareness Month
September is Suicide Awareness Month, and it calls us to pause and acknowledge a difficult reality: suicide touches more lives than we often realize. Whether through the loss of someone we love, the struggles of a friend, or even our own silent battles, this issue is not far away—it affects our communities, our families, and often touches lives more closely than we realize. The Hidden Struggle Behind Suicide Suicide is one of the leading causes of death in the United States, and it does not discriminate. It affects people of every background, at every age, and in every corner of the country. Behind each number is a story of someone…
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How to Support High-Support Needs Families: A Therapist’s Insight
For those of you who know me personally, it’s hard to know me without knowing my brother. My brother is the reason why I am the helper I am. The therapist I am. And the woman I am today. He has taught me more of my life lessons than any other person, and has done so without using words. My brother has Level 3 Autism, or what used to be referred to as “severe Autism.” He is conversationally non-verbal and has epilepsy. Inside the Challenges of a High-Support Needs Family Life has always been different for my family. We don’t go to restaurants. We take shifts on who is watching…
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Learning to Manage Stress — Before It Manages You
Stress. We all experience it, and as a therapist, I can tell you it doesn’t discriminate. It shows up in every walk of life — at work, at home, in relationships, and in moments when we least expect it. Feeling stressed is completely normal, and in small doses, it can motivate and focus us. But when it becomes chronic, it can quietly build until it’s managing you. When Stress Starts to Manage Your Life I’ve watched this happen so many times — and felt it myself. You’re getting through the days, putting out one fire after another. You tell yourself it’s just a “busy season” or that “things will slow…
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Unpacking Your Core Beliefs: What ‘Inside Out’ Can Teach You
One of the most important things to consider when addressing mental health challenges is focusing on what’s within your control—namely, you. You may not be able to control how your parents, siblings, or others behave in your relationships, but you can take steps to better understand yourself and your thought patterns. A great place to start is by exploring your core beliefs—the ideas you hold about yourself, others, and the world. Inside Riley’s Mind: How Childhood Experiences Shape Our Core Beliefs If you’ve ever seen the movie Inside Out (and if you haven’t, you should!), you might remember the main character, Riley, and her collection of core memories—glowing glass orbs…
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The Beautiful Complexity of Being Human: A Therapist Reflection
Lately, I’ve been thinking a lot about what it really means to be human. It’s such a unique experience—messy, meaningful, and sometimes mystifying. We each start our journey at birth, thrust into a world we didn’t choose, and then spend the rest of our lives trying to figure it out. Along the way, we learn, grow, struggle, celebrate, and keep evolving. But have you ever paused to ask yourself: Who am I really? Not the roles you play or the titles you hold—but the real you, beneath it all. Being human means living in that question, constantly discovering pieces of yourself as life unfolds. In the spirit of reflection, I…
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Navigating Caregiver Burnout with Compassion and Strength
Being a caregiver is often described as a labor of love, but it’s also one of the most emotionally, physically, and mentally exhausting roles a person can take on—an invisible weight that can quietly lead to burnout. Whether you’re caring for an elderly parent, a child with special needs, or a spouse with chronic illness, the responsibility can feel never-ending. Add in a full-time job, raising children, or managing a household, and it’s no wonder so many caregivers find themselves overwhelmed, exhausted, and sometimes hopeless. If you’re reading this and thinking, “That’s me”, know that you’re not alone—and what you’re feeling is valid. The Unseen Challenges of Caregiving Caregiving often…
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Life Transitions: 5 Ways to Rediscover Yourself in Times of Change
I’ll never forget the moment I transitioned into a new role in my career in 2018. For so long, I had been responsible for others—leading a team, guiding a program, carrying the weight of decisions and outcomes. And then, one day, I found myself in a position where my responsibility was only to myself and the people I served. It was a shift I didn’t fully anticipate. At first, it felt like a loss—an identity I had built for so long was no longer there. I had spent almost 5 years shaping the direction of others, and now, I had more time to breathe, more space to think. It felt…
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What Is the Connection Between Sleep and Mental Health?
In our pursuit of mental wellness, we often prioritize therapy, medication, and lifestyle changes, yet we frequently overlook a cornerstone of mental health: sleep. Insufficient or poor-quality sleep can have profound effects on our psychological well-being, impacting mood, cognitive performance, and overall mental health. Understanding the importance of sleep and recognizing lesser-known sleep disorders can pave the way to a healthier mind. The Importance of Sleep According to the National Sleep Foundation, adults require 7-9 hours of sleep per night to function optimally. Lack of sleep can lead to anxiety, irritability, and a decreased ability to manage stress. Studies have shown that sleep deprivation can exacerbate conditions such as depression…
