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Life Lessons from Solving a Puzzle
A few weeks ago I did something I hadn’t done in quite a while—I put together a puzzle with a friend. Although we haven’t finished it yet, the experience reminded me of how putting together a puzzle is similar to moving through life. Here are some of the insights I gained while piecing it together. Clarity First, let’s normalize that putting together a puzzle, especially a 1,000-piece one with minimal detail, is not easy. When I started trying to put this puzzle together, I was quickly reminded to reference the picture of what the puzzle is supposed to look like often. Clarity is key. Understanding what you want your life…
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Exploring the Benefits of Different Types of Therapy
Today, many individuals are turning to therapy as a way to cope with the challenges and stressors of everyday life. Therapy comes in many forms, each offering unique benefits and approaches to healing. Let’s explore the benefits of different types of therapy and how they can help individuals navigate their mental health journey. 1. Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT): Therapists widely use Cognitive Behavioral Therapy to focus on changing negative thought patterns and behaviors. The main benefit of CBT is its practical approach, offering clients tangible tools to manage symptoms. CBT has been shown to be effective in treating anxiety, depression, and other mental health conditions. 2. Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT):…
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How to be Childlike (but not Childish) to Improve Mental Health:
In today’s fast-paced and hectic world, it’s easy to get caught up in the stresses and responsibilities of adulthood. We often forget the carefree and imaginative mindset of childhood that can bring joy and lightness to our lives. However, embracing a childlike mentality while still maintaining maturity and responsibility can have significant benefits for our mental health. Being childlike means tapping into the curiosity, wonder, and creativity that children naturally possess. It means approaching life with a sense of playfulness and openness, rather than being weighed down by worries and fears. Embracing this mindset can help us to see the world in a new light, sparking our creativity and inspiring…
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Generalized Anxiety Disorder vs. OCD–Which is it?
Hey there! Today we’re diving into the world of anxiety and obsessive-compulsive disorder (OCD) to break down the differences between the two. So, grab a cup of tea and let’s get started! Generalized Anxiety Disorder (GAD) First up, we have generalized anxiety disorder (GAD). Imagine this: you wake up in the morning and your brain is already racing with thoughts about all the things that could go wrong today. Whether it’s worrying about work, relationships, or just life in general, that sense of dread and unease doesn’t seem to go away. That’s GAD for you! People with GAD experience constant, excessive worry about a variety of everyday things. It’s like…
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Crisis Recovery For Military or First Responders
Recovery from a crisis can be especially challenging for military personnel and first responders, who often face the dual burden of managing their own emotional responses while providing support to others. This guide offers practical steps to help you navigate the recovery process effectively, integrating key practices such as maintaining personal connections and establishing healthy routines. Avoiding Over-Identifying with Survivors’ Grief One of the critical aspects of recovery for military or first responders is Avoiding over-identifying with survivors’ grief. It’s natural to empathize with those you’re helping; however, maintaining a professional distance is crucial to preserve your mental health. Techniques such as mindfulness and reflection can help you acknowledge your…
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Silencing Your Inner Critic
The words we tell ourselves are powerful. They shape how we show up in the world and what we believe we are capable of. After thousands of conversations I’ve had over the years, along with my own lived experience, I have come to realize we all have an internal world unseen by the people around us. One recurring theme that emerges is the undeniable power of the words we tell ourselves, and the profound impact it has on our mental well-being. Our inner dialogue, that constant stream of thoughts buzzing in our minds, plays a crucial role in shaping our emotions and behaviors. It’s like having a personal narrator, commenting…
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The Significance of Self-Forgiveness for Mental Health
Forgiveness is a crucial act in moving forward for better mental health. It is about letting go, and a powerful journey towards personal transformation. It is through forgiveness that we find freedom from the weight of guilt, allowing us to grow and evolve into better versions of ourselves. Self- forgiveness provides us with an opportunity to grow, inner peace, and the ability to recognize our true value and self worth as human beings. Using the acronym FORGIVE, let’s look at the importance of self forgiveness for improved mental health. F: Freedom O: Opportunity R: Release G: Growth I: Inner Peace V: Value E: Empowerment Freedom: Releasing Guilt and Self Blame…
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The Power of Our Words
Words are not merely a means of communication. They possess an extraordinary power that can shape our lives and the world around us. From the ancient wisdom of philosophers to the modern understanding of neuro-linguistic programming, the impact of our words has been recognized throughout history. In this blog, we will explore the profound influence our words have on ourselves and others. Also, we will explore how we can harness this power to create positive change. 1. Self-Talk: The Inner Dialogue The words we use in our internal conversations, also known as self-talk, have a profound impact on our self-perception and overall well-being. Positive self-talk can boost confidence, motivation, and…
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Assertive Communication: 5 CLEAR Truths to Express Yourself with Confidence
Assertive communication is a powerful tool that allows individuals to express their thoughts, feelings, and needs in a clear and respectful manner. By using “I” statements instead of blaming language, assertive communication promotes healthy relationships, helps avoid conflicts, and enables individuals to set boundaries effectively. Not everyone knows how, or has the confidence, to begin using assertive communication. Using the acronym CLEAR, I have identified 5 truths than can help you gain confidence and understanding that can lead to healthier communication. Clarity through “I” Statements: Assertive communication emphasizes expressing oneself using “I” statements rather than using accusatory language with the word “you.” For instance, instead of saying, “You never listen to…
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Overcoming People-Pleasing Rooted in Mother-Daughter Relationships
Dear women, Do you find yourself constantly trying to please others (people-pleasing), even at the expense of your own happiness? Do you struggle with self-esteem and the idea of perfectionism? If so, you may have been impacted by the coldness and conditional love behaviors of your own mother. It is not uncommon for women to develop people-pleasing tendencies as a result of their upbringing. When a mother’s love is conditional, it can lead to a child feeling like they need to constantly earn love and approval. This can manifest in adulthood as a need to please others, even if it means sacrificing one’s own needs and desires. But the good…
