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What Does It Mean To ‘Feel My Feelings’?
The phrases “Just let yourself feel your feelings” and “It’s okay to feel all the feels” are really popular in the mental health space and online, but for many of us this does not come naturally. Some of us try to distract ourselves from things that make us feel. Some try to logically think things through without stopping to see what emotions we are actually having. And some don’t have the language to even understand what we are feeling when we do, so we have a difficult time understanding where we stand on things. If you resonate with any of these things, there are 3 questions that I ask my…
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Breaking Free: The Power of Letting Go
Letting go is often one of the hardest things we face in life. Whether it’s a relationship, a job, or a personal project, the thought of walking away can fill us with fear and uncertainty. Yet, sometimes, letting go is exactly what we need to do to make room for growth and positive change. A concept that often keeps us attached to situations that no longer serve us is the sunk cost fallacy. What Is the Sunk Cost Fallacy? The sunk cost fallacy is a psychological phenomenon where people continue to invest in something because of the time, money, or effort they’ve already put into it, even when it no…
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Why an Integrative Health Therapist Might Be What You Need
It’s no secret to learn that today’s mental health concerns are at an all-time high. Many people seek therapeutic support to address their emotional and psychological needs. However, traditional therapy often focuses solely on mental health, overlooking the interconnected nature of human health. As an integrative health therapist, I believe that to achieve true psychological well-being, we must consider various aspects of health, including physical, social, and spiritual dimensions. Here’s what you can expect when you engage with an integrative health specialist and the transformative benefits that come with it. 5 Ways an Integrative Health Therapist Can Support Your Well-Being 1. Understanding the Interconnectedness of Health Research suggests that mental…
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How to Support a Friend with Mental Health Challenges
In a world that often prioritizes productivity and external success, mental health challenges can feel isolating and overwhelming, not just for those experiencing them but also for their friends and loved ones. If you have a friend who is struggling with their mental health, it’s natural to want to help, but knowing how to do so effectively can be daunting. The good news is that your support can make a significant difference in their journey to healing. So, let’s explore some practical ways to support a friend facing mental health challenges. 7 Meaningful Ways to Support a Friend Struggling with Mental Health 1. Listen Actively One of the most valuable…
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Finding the Right Words: How to Comfort Someone You Love
Have you ever found yourself worrying about someone you care about, unsure of how to reach out or what to say to comfort them? It can be a difficult place to be, especially when so many people struggle in silence, hiding their challenges behind a brave face. Picture a close friend—someone with whom you’ve shared countless laughs and heartfelt moments—sitting across from you, seemingly weighed down by unspoken burdens. You sense a shift in their mood and notice changes in their behavior, making it clear that something isn’t quite right. In these moments, you may feel the urge to say something, yet the right words seem to be hard to…
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Everyday Monsters: Anxiety, Fear, and Phobias, OH MY!
During this time of year, fear is something we talk about more often. Scary movies. Scary costumes. Haunted houses. Fear, when expected and controlled, can be fun! Some of us enjoy the thrill of a jump scare in a scary movie or a haunted house. But for some of us, fear and anxiety is something we deal with in our day-to-day lives, and it can be debilitating. 3 Common Ways Anxiety and Fear Haunt Our Lives 1. Fear without cause All of us experience anxiety to a certain degree. Our hearts race before turning a corner in the Halloween corn maze. Our stomachs drop when an animatronic at Spirit Halloween…
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Finding the Gift in Life: A Holiday Reminder of Gratitude
I’ll be honest. This time of year can be hard for many. Whether it’s navigating the holidays after the loss of a loved one or feeling the pressure to do it all—buying the perfect gifts, hosting ideal gatherings, and decorating like the Griswolds—the season meant for connection can quickly turn into a pressure cooker of stress and emotions. Shifting Our Perspective Lately, I’ve been reminded that no matter what we’re facing, life itself is a gift. Yet, when the weight of expectations piles up, it’s easy to lose sight of that. In our world of instant gratification and constant distraction—where our phones are buzzing with notifications—it’s harder than ever to…
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3 Expert Tips for Handling Holiday Financial Stress
Holiday time can bring a lot of joy but also a lot of stress. Thousands of people are shopping for the holidays. Many people enjoy the season and shopping. However, over half of the holiday shoppers will begin to feel financial stress during the holidays. According to APA’s 2024 Stress in America Survey, only 16% of adults said they do not experience stress during the holiday season. It is common to feel anxiety, stress, and sadness when you have little or no money and are expected to provide gifts for family members. Here are a few ways to manage stress due to spending during the holiday time. 3 Tips to…
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Breaking the Stigma Surrounding Mental Health
Mental health has long been a taboo topic in society, shrouded in stigma and misconceptions. Despite progress in recent years, many individuals still feel ashamed or afraid to seek help for their mental health challenges. This stigma can prevent people from getting the support they need and deserve, leading to feelings of isolation and exacerbating their struggles. It is crucial to break down these barriers and create a safe and supportive environment for individuals to openly discuss and address their mental health. Seeking Help is a Sign of Weakness One of the most pervasive myths surrounding mental health is the idea that seeking help is a sign of weakness. This harmful belief contributes to the stigma surrounding mental…
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How to Maintain Adequate Mental Health During Pregnancy
Pregnancy is an exciting and transformative time in a woman’s life, but it can also bring about a range of emotions and challenges that can impact mental health. It is essential for expecting mothers to prioritize their mental well-being during this period to ensure a healthy and positive pregnancy experience. Here are some tips on how to maintain adequate mental health during pregnancy: 1. Stay Connected Pregnancy can sometimes feel isolating, especially if you are experiencing mood swings or other emotional changes. It is crucial to stay connected with your partner, friends, family, and healthcare providers to share your feelings and seek support when needed. Joining a pregnancy support group…
