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Life Isn’t Either-Or: The Power of Dialectical Thinking
In life, we’re often taught to think in “either-or” terms: either I’m happy or I need to change; either I focus on others or take time for myself. This way of thinking can feel limiting, making it seem like every decision means letting go of something important. But in reality, opposites can exist side by side—and learning to embrace this idea can lead to a more balanced, fulfilling life. This approach is known as dialectical thinking. How Dialectical Thinking Works Dialectical thinking encourages us to hold two seemingly opposing truths at once. It’s a mindset that helps us stay flexible and open to new perspectives. For example, consider the idea…
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The 3 P’s of Helping New Moms Postpartum
Before I had my daughter, I had no idea how to support the new moms in my life during postpartum. I wanted to show up and be helpful but did not want to insert myself. Would they want visitors? Or would they feel like they need to host me? Should I cook for them? What if they don’t like what I make and I just give them more stuff they need to throw away? Fast forward to the month after I had my baby. To me with dirty hair, a sink full of dishes, and not knowing what day it was. I found as I went through my own (rough)…
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Navigating Life After Divorce: How to Heal and Move Forward
Divorce can be one of life’s most challenging experiences, leaving you feeling lost, overwhelmed, and uncertain about the future. However, many people find that with time, patience, and the right strategies, they can rebuild their lives and emerge stronger than before. I want to emphasize the importance of professional guidance, maintaining a healthy environment for children, prioritizing mental health, and embracing self-care. 6 Practical Steps to Reclaim Your Life After Divorce Here are some essential guidelines for managing life after divorce: 1. Choose the Right Attorney One of the first steps in navigating divorce is finding a good attorney. Your lawyer will play a crucial role in guiding you through…
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Pain Reprocessing Therapy: How to Train the Brain to Unlearn Pain
If you’ve been dealing with chronic pain for what feels like forever, you’ve probably heard it all: “Have you tried yoga?” “Maybe it’s your diet.” “It’s just stress!” Meanwhile, you’re over here thinking, If one more person tells me to meditate, I might just scream. Chronic pain can be exhausting, frustrating, and downright demoralizing. But what if I told you that your brain might be tricking you into feeling pain—even when there’s no real injury or ongoing damage? Enter Pain Reprocessing Therapy (PRT), a science-backed approach that helps retrain your brain to unlearn pain. Sounds wild, right? Stick with me. Your Brain: The Ultimate Drama Queen Our brains are incredible.…
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What Does It Mean To ‘Feel My Feelings’?
The phrases “Just let yourself feel your feelings” and “It’s okay to feel all the feels” are really popular in the mental health space and online, but for many of us this does not come naturally. Some of us try to distract ourselves from things that make us feel. Some try to logically think things through without stopping to see what emotions we are actually having. And some don’t have the language to even understand what we are feeling when we do, so we have a difficult time understanding where we stand on things. If you resonate with any of these things, there are 3 questions that I ask my…
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Breaking Free: The Power of Letting Go
Letting go is often one of the hardest things we face in life. Whether it’s a relationship, a job, or a personal project, the thought of walking away can fill us with fear and uncertainty. Yet, sometimes, letting go is exactly what we need to do to make room for growth and positive change. A concept that often keeps us attached to situations that no longer serve us is the sunk cost fallacy. What Is the Sunk Cost Fallacy? The sunk cost fallacy is a psychological phenomenon where people continue to invest in something because of the time, money, or effort they’ve already put into it, even when it no…
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Why an Integrative Health Therapist Might Be What You Need
It’s no secret to learn that today’s mental health concerns are at an all-time high. Many people seek therapeutic support to address their emotional and psychological needs. However, traditional therapy often focuses solely on mental health, overlooking the interconnected nature of human health. As an integrative health therapist, I believe that to achieve true psychological well-being, we must consider various aspects of health, including physical, social, and spiritual dimensions. Here’s what you can expect when you engage with an integrative health specialist and the transformative benefits that come with it. 5 Ways an Integrative Health Therapist Can Support Your Well-Being 1. Understanding the Interconnectedness of Health Research suggests that mental…
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How to Support a Friend with Mental Health Challenges
In a world that often prioritizes productivity and external success, mental health challenges can feel isolating and overwhelming, not just for those experiencing them but also for their friends and loved ones. If you have a friend who is struggling with their mental health, it’s natural to want to help, but knowing how to do so effectively can be daunting. The good news is that your support can make a significant difference in their journey to healing. So, let’s explore some practical ways to support a friend facing mental health challenges. 7 Meaningful Ways to Support a Friend Struggling with Mental Health 1. Listen Actively One of the most valuable…
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Finding the Right Words: How to Comfort Someone You Love
Have you ever found yourself worrying about someone you care about, unsure of how to reach out or what to say to comfort them? It can be a difficult place to be, especially when so many people struggle in silence, hiding their challenges behind a brave face. Picture a close friend—someone with whom you’ve shared countless laughs and heartfelt moments—sitting across from you, seemingly weighed down by unspoken burdens. You sense a shift in their mood and notice changes in their behavior, making it clear that something isn’t quite right. In these moments, you may feel the urge to say something, yet the right words seem to be hard to…
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Everyday Monsters: Anxiety, Fear, and Phobias, OH MY!
During this time of year, fear is something we talk about more often. Scary movies. Scary costumes. Haunted houses. Fear, when expected and controlled, can be fun! Some of us enjoy the thrill of a jump scare in a scary movie or a haunted house. But for some of us, fear and anxiety is something we deal with in our day-to-day lives, and it can be debilitating. 3 Common Ways Anxiety and Fear Haunt Our Lives 1. Fear without cause All of us experience anxiety to a certain degree. Our hearts race before turning a corner in the Halloween corn maze. Our stomachs drop when an animatronic at Spirit Halloween…
