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How Do I Make Friends as an Adult?
This is a question I have been asked by so many of my clients: “How can I make friends as an adult?” As a society, we are lonelier than ever, and so many of us feel like we don’t even know where to start to try and change that. I hear this from young adults who have entered the workforce and don’t know how to connect with people outside of a school environment. I hear this from stay-at-home moms who feel isolated and like they only have their partner. And also from older adults who realize they don’t have anyone to talk to now that their kids are out of…
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Navigating Life After Divorce: How to Heal and Move Forward
Divorce can be one of life’s most challenging experiences, leaving you feeling lost, overwhelmed, and uncertain about the future. However, many people find that with time, patience, and the right strategies, they can rebuild their lives and emerge stronger than before. I want to emphasize the importance of professional guidance, maintaining a healthy environment for children, prioritizing mental health, and embracing self-care. 6 Practical Steps to Reclaim Your Life After Divorce Here are some essential guidelines for managing life after divorce: 1. Choose the Right Attorney One of the first steps in navigating divorce is finding a good attorney. Your lawyer will play a crucial role in guiding you through…
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How to Better Handle Big Life Changes
I am one of the newest members of the Be Inspired family, and this has been an awesome change for me to make in my life. But with that said, I am one of those people who typically struggle with making big life changes. I can’t tell you how many times in my life I have said “I hate change!” Seriously—I have been using the same brand of Chapstick since the 7th grade: Burt’s Bees Mango Butter. Every other Chapstick is inferior, and you cannot convince me otherwise. There is not much we are guaranteed in this life—but change is one of them. Here are some ways I have found…
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How to Combat Early Mornings for Your School-aged Child
As parents, we all know that getting our kids up and ready for school in the morning can be a real challenge. But for some children, the stress of waking up early and starting their day can have a significant impact on their mental health. Here, I will discuss some effective strategies to help combat the difficulties of early school mornings for kids and promote a positive start to their day: 1. Establish a Bedtime Routine One of the most important ways to combat early school mornings for kids is to establish a consistent bedtime routine. Set a specific bedtime for your child and make sure they stick to it…
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How to Maintain Adequate Mental Health During Pregnancy
Pregnancy is an exciting and transformative time in a woman’s life, but it can also bring about a range of emotions and challenges that can impact mental health. It is essential for expecting mothers to prioritize their mental well-being during this period to ensure a healthy and positive pregnancy experience. Here are some tips on how to maintain adequate mental health during pregnancy: 1. Stay Connected Pregnancy can sometimes feel isolating, especially if you are experiencing mood swings or other emotional changes. It is crucial to stay connected with your partner, friends, family, and healthcare providers to share your feelings and seek support when needed. Joining a pregnancy support group…
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Understanding the Signs of Depression and How to Help
Is there someone in your life who you think may be struggling with depression? Sometimes it’s hard to know if someone is struggling, because they may not recognize it themselves or are unable to put into words how they are feeling or what they are experiencing. Depression can be a silent and isolating experience, affecting millions of people worldwide. Recognizing the signs and knowing how to help can make a significant difference in the lives of those who are struggling. Here’s a guide to understanding the signs of depression and offering support. Recognizing the Signs of Depression How to Help Someone Struggling with Depression Final Thoughts Depression is a complex…
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Exploring the Benefits of Different Types of Therapy
Today, many individuals are turning to therapy as a way to cope with the challenges and stressors of everyday life. Therapy comes in many forms, each offering unique benefits and approaches to healing. Let’s explore the benefits of different types of therapy and how they can help individuals navigate their mental health journey. 1. Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT): Therapists widely use Cognitive Behavioral Therapy to focus on changing negative thought patterns and behaviors. The main benefit of CBT is its practical approach, offering clients tangible tools to manage symptoms. CBT has been shown to be effective in treating anxiety, depression, and other mental health conditions. 2. Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT):…
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How to be Childlike (but not Childish) to Improve Mental Health:
In today’s fast-paced and hectic world, it’s easy to get caught up in the stresses and responsibilities of adulthood. We often forget the carefree and imaginative mindset of childhood that can bring joy and lightness to our lives. However, embracing a childlike mentality while still maintaining maturity and responsibility can have significant benefits for our mental health. Being childlike means tapping into the curiosity, wonder, and creativity that children naturally possess. It means approaching life with a sense of playfulness and openness, rather than being weighed down by worries and fears. Embracing this mindset can help us to see the world in a new light, sparking our creativity and inspiring…
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Coming Out: A Survival Guide to Coming Out to Your Family
When considering coming out to your family, it is important to remember the goal of the conversation. This more than likely means wanting to share and be vulnerable with your loved ones. Whether you have a close-knit family or you only have a few family members whom you are close with, here are a few tips that can help you have this conversation. 1. Practice, practice, practice Practicing what you want to say can be a step in the right direction to prepare you for this conversation. Think of a time, place, and location—somewhere private and quiet will allow you the opportunity to speak out about your feelings. Practicing may…
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How to Ask for Help When You Feel Like You Could Do It Better on Your Own
Are you always tired from trying to do everything on your own, yet find it difficult to ask for or accept help? Many of us struggle with the idea of seeking assistance. It is important to recognize that asking for guidance with mental health is not a sign of weakness, but rather a strength in acknowledging our limitations and valuing the expertise of others. In this blog, we will explore seven to ten tips to help you overcome the reluctance to ask for help and embrace collaboration as a means to achieve success. Let’s learn how to navigate the delicate balance of independence and interdependence in our quest for personal…
