Warning:  This article is for parents and caregivers who know that they aren’t perfect, who occasionally are afraid to take their kids out in public, who know that they will find nothing monumental in the following article about parenting, but love their kids and are willing to trust their own intuition over any one single “proven” parenting strategy. A teenager and his mom arrived in my office one day, one looking angry as hell and the other at her wit’s end.  Her son was in trouble at school, in trouble at home, a behavior problem everywhere he went, with not a single respectful bone in his body.  His attitude in…