Do you want to become a good listener? Have you ever had a conversation with someone who didn’t hear a word you said?  How did you feel afterwards?  I’m going to guess it didn’t feel great.  We all have experienced times in our lives where we have not felt heard or understood.   In order to understand each other, we must learn to be able to listen.  As a counselor, countless individuals have sat in front of me, whether it be a husband, wife, friend, parent, or child, and say, “They don’t listen to me.”  In fact, this may be one of the most common complaints I hear.  Lack of listening…